Me and My Tribe

I thought that an introduction was in order so here goes!

     Hello!  I am Rhen.  I am a 32 year old SAHM of 6 children, with another girl on the way, and 1 grown man who I claim as a 7th child.  Hey- when you do just as much or more for the grown one as you do the little ones you can claim him as anything you want!  LOL  I am just kidding, of course!  

     Anyway, we are a God-loving family who enjoy our homestead, gardening together and homeschooling.  I love to read,  and to learn as much as I can, to eat healthy, to workout, and garden.  I have a passion for God, my family, archery, photography, heirloom seeds and sarcasm (it’s a gift). 

     My darling hubby is Mr. Muscles (36).  He is the love of my life.  We have been married for 14 1/2 years.  Wow- time flies when you are crazy in love!   He is my rock and definitely the other half of me.  I thank God every day for him.  He is a magnificent daddy and spoils us all.  He has tons of muscles, loves to work out and is my personal trainer.  Isn’t he wonderful?!

Now to the rest of the “tribe”

     DD1 is Ms. Serious.  She is 11 and enjoys playing her hot pink guitar.  She is an artsy-craftsy person, reads all the time, creates jewelry and spends a lot of her time trying to boss around the rest of them.  Sometimes it works and sometimes they plan a mutiny.   LOL  She has quite a few penpals and is very dedicated.  I can’t even think about how many stamps she uses a month.  She has a heart for God and a passion for dancing.  :)

     DS is Short Man who is 10.  He is our only son and definitely a rough and tumble young man.  He is crazy about dinosaurs, lizards, bones, and anything that creeps and crawls.  He is working to be a competitive gymnast this spring.  He wants to either be a soldier or a paleontologist when he grows up.  We are constantly doing digs on our property to see what we can unearth.  Ya never know!  He helps his dad work around our homestead.  He has an upbeat attitude and would love to have a brother.  Talk to God about that one kid!  hahaha

     DD2 is Ms. Firecracker.  She is a solid bundle of muscle.  My goodness, she is 8 and has a 6 pack.  She spends a lot of her time climbing trees, reading (Junie B. books), coloring, writing letters, practicing piano and is a part of a competitive gymnastics team.  She is the AAU level 2 state champ in her age group and competed in nationals!  She is a USAG Level 4 gymnast.  She is such a caring person who doesn’t like to see anyone left out or unhappy.  She is also a packrat.   When we clean her room I spend too much time having to pull things out of nooks and crannies where she has stuffed them.

     DD3 is Ms. Lovebug.   A little snuggle girl who loves to sit in her daddy’s lap.  She is 6 years old and she really likes to draw, create with play-doh and learn new things.  She enjoys doing her schoolwork and is so excited to be in the 1st grade.  She would spend hours swinging if she could and has an absolutely magical laugh.  When she giggles no one is immune.  She is always by my side when I am in the garden.   She is our newest gymnast and will start competing in January. 

     DD 4 is Ms. Independent.  At 3 she is by far the pushiest, loudest and most stubborn.  She is only outdone in those areas by her momma.  When you tell her to do something she will cut her eyes at you and wait to see if you will actually MAKE her do it.  She is a daddy’s girl and has a fit if anyone other than she or the baby sits is daddy’s lap.  She and Ms. Lovebug clash on that a lot.  She enjoys torturing her older sisters, coloring, painting and constantly has a backpack of her favorite items with her.

     DD 5 is Ms. Giggles, is 21 months old  At 3 months and 1 week she popped her two bottom teeth in without nary a fuss or whine.  A lot of slobber but that is what God gave us bibs for.  She is the happiest baby I have ever seen.  She smiles at anything, has a great tendancy to use her left hand (Granny is left handed and loves the idea) and she has rolls on rolls.  I love fat babies!!  All of the kids love her and she is showered with lots of kisses.   She is now a fullfledged Daddy’s girl. 

     We round off our homestead with 2 dogs, 18 chickens.  That will be expanding this spring when we replace our ducks, guineas and pheasants that were killed.   I love goats and we need to get a calf in the spring.  We have a small orchard with cherry, fig and apple trees.  We also have two big gardens for growing food, several blueberry bushes, a strawberry bed, a blackberry patch, muscadines and some grape vines.  Still to add:  plum trees, a Granny Smith apple and a few more grape vines.

If I think of anything interesting I will add it.  Until then…………………….that’s all folks!

**God wants spiritual fruit not religious nuts**  ~

God bless,

~Rhen

You can contact me at cottonblossom424 at yahoo dot com

You can find me on Twitter as ContentedRhen

35 Responses to this post.

  1. Posted by Laura on August 3, 2007 at 3:16 pm

    I can tell who my favorite is! : )

    By ~Rhen OMW! Look you at Ms. “I rarely go on the computer”! Commenting on my blog. Woo Hoo!!! Gee, now I feel so special and loved. :)

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  2. Wow, I’m impressed. You’re only 31 with 6 kids! I feel so old! I turned 39 this year. From all your post I would have thought you were older. You are very mature for your age. I hope you take all that as a compliment, because that’s how I intended it! Your kids all sound great and seems like you really enjoy being a Mom. Do you guys plan on having more kids? I get asked that question all the time, I’m just curious about you.

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  3. I have a shirt on my cafepress store that would be perfect for you. It says “Yes they are all mine. Yes, my hands are full. My heart is full as well.”

    http://www.cafepress.com/grandparentgift.70743459

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  4. I refer to my family as The Tribe, too. Partly because there are so many of us (we have five children and my husband says we are just warming up) and partly because my husband is Mongolian and that’s a real tribal culture.

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  5. [...] blog makes me smile!), Carrie at Chocolate, the Other White Meat, Sarah at Real Life, and  Rhen at Yes, They are All Mine.  Your words always make me smile.  So thank you for brightening up the [...]

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  6. What a joy to read about your kiddos!

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  7. What a fun little family! We have a lot in common. I can’t remember how I got here, but I saw your comment on someone else’s blog and wanted to say hi!

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  8. [...] I’m shameless. I’ve seen this on Rhen’s blog Yes, They Are All Mine, for a while, and I love it. Today (I’m writing this [...]

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  9. I’ve got four, three boys and the skinny version of your happy little baby girl! Anyway, tell me more about your chickens guineas. We have about a dozen. What do I do with them during the winter??? We live in MN, so it gets really cold. We also borrowed some goats after we moved here so they could mow out some of the pasture. They’re really fun, and I would totally recommend getting more than one since they like their “friends”. I’m about to bookmark your site! Thanks!

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  10. I am pea green with envy. I wish I had a bunch of kids but I am ridiculously blessed with the 3 I do have. In SA it is unusual to have more than 3. I am a Christian SAHM but not a Nazi one. I have huge respect for working moms, moms in general actually.

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  11. Awesome! I love when families choose to go beyond the norm and have more than 2.5 kids. It forces you into vetoing the American have to have it life!

    Proud mom of 3 and soon to be 4!
    Billie

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  12. I’m so glad to see another Mom with kids so close in age. It gives me hope that I will survive. (I have ages: 6, 4, 3, 1 and a 4 month old niece living with me.)

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  13. Wow, your kids actually sound a lot like my kids! My oldest daughter is also the bossy, artsy, social butterfly. My #3 and #4 are boys — but they still sound like your girls. Fun!

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  14. Love that :”God wants spiritual fruit not religious nuts**”
    I just got back from a joyve Meyers conference and had a similar saying..I think she used the term fruit loops :)

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  15. Being a pastors wife…
    **God wants spiritual fruit not religious nuts**
    I LOVE IT!!

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  16. Posted by Joy on March 15, 2008 at 12:29 am

    You guys sound like an awesome family and your sense of humor is very similar to mine!!! Love your blog!

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  17. I am just a tad envious…of the kids (I always wanted 5 or 6, but God has blessed me with three) and the awesome land and animals, a future dream of ours; hopefully sooner rather than later.

    I’m thinking I need to put you on my blogroll, you’re an interesting read:)

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  18. My husband and I are asked that question (Are they all yours?) all the time. Both of us have been watching the kids when we’re out and about pondering why six kids doesn’t look like that many. We have four girls (13, 11 2/3, 9, and 8) and two boys (5 and 3).

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  19. Posted by Realistically Real Me on April 23, 2008 at 3:03 pm

    Thanks for sharing through your blog. I have enjoyed glancing through it & like your writing style.

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  20. I wanted to thank you again for the Burt’s Bees and organic chocolate. This was such a fun giveaway and I was so thrilled to win.

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  21. Rhen, I can totally relate!!! We have 5 kids ages 6 and under (nope, no twins in there!), and we are constantly getting asked, “Are they all yours?” When I say that they are, inevitably we get, “You know what causes that, don’t you?” I like to reply, “Yep, and I’d say we’re pretty darn good at it!”

    Tara
    Deal Seeking Mom

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  22. boy, oh, boy, does that question ring true “Are they all yours?” So how do you answer… sarcastically, happily, impatiently, or patiently with a patient smile on your face and patient eyes asking them to please observe the similar faces in a row that make it CLEAR that they are siblings so yes they are all mine… okay, been there, and totally have done that. I have been known to say that sometimes i feel like a circus attraction when we go out as a family. :-) I am blessed. and I thank God for it.!!!

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  23. Good morning! I had read this before but visited it again to reacquaint myself with the tribe! Love all your descriptions!

    Blessings!

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  24. I just found my way back here. I read the comment I wrote and realized that the age of one of my daughters came out as a smiley face, strange. Since three of my children have had birthdays, I’ll list their ages again. I have four daughters (13,12, 10, and 8) and two sons (6 and 3.75).

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  25. Beautiful!

    This why I love the mama blog world..getting a glimpse into wonderful big families! I can only pray to be blessed in the same way!

    I really enjoy your blog.

    Blessings!

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  26. You are so blessed! Your family sounds so wonderful. I

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  27. Nice to meet you. I love large families. I got started a little late, so we’re done, but so fun to see others who can keep on goin’. You go girl! God bless you all!

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  28. I was surfing MPM, and I came across your blog. You are a woman after my own heart, as I would love to have 6 or 7 kiddos.

    Do ppl ask you if you are crazy? Pretty much everyone I know thinks I’m slightly nutty for having 3 girls (ages 4, 2.5, and 4 months) so close together. I personally feel that children are a blessing. We are also a visitation family for an 18-yr-old girl in a children’s home, and she has become our daughter. She calls me Momma.

    Anyway, I think you are awesome! I hope to one day have a tribe of my own :)

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  29. Hi, You look great! I only have five children. I am now a grandmother. My youngest child is 3 and oldest is 25. :) We homeschool too.

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  30. Just found your blog. Look forward to reading more.

    We are a Jesus-lovin’, homeschoolin’, wish we were homesteadin’ kind of family. (We used to own a blueberry farm.)

    I had my first 6 kids by the time I was 28, and then slowed down the pace a bit.

    My older 6 are now 24, 23, 22, 20, 20, 18. You may want to check out my blog to get inspired for the days when your kids are older. The Lord has done amazing things in their lives, and 3 of them are currently living overseas in full-time missions work.

    I have 1 “middle child” at age 15 … and then my younger 6 are 13, 12, 10, 8, 7, 7,. So, I’m still right there in the mama trenches with you.

    Many blessings,

    Laurel
    mama of 13

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  31. I love your blog! I’m a 31 year old SAHM with 5 kids number 6 on the way! So fun to read and relate to someone with so much in common! Thanks for the fun reading!

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  32. enjoyed reading about your tribe!! Sounds like a lot of fun over at your house! I look forward to reading more of your blog! BTW, I like the name!! check out mine!!

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  33. It’s great hearing about your family and your interests. We are a homeschooling family as well. We are expecting a baby boy, which will make number three.

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  34. I just send a friend an email stating that I would like to start my own blog and call it “yestheyareallmine” I should have checked first to see if it was taken! I read a few entries of your blog and love it! I can not believe we are the same age and you are expecting…your 7th, I believe! Ahhh…How that sounds wonderful and crazy!

    I only have 4 (have to throw the only in their since you have me almost doubled! ) Ever since I had my 4th 7 months ago, everytime we are out in public (pretty much every day) I get asked ” are they all yours?” I find this funny, since 4 does not seem a high number…why must everyone ask? But I am starting to get humored by it!

    Thank you for sharing your stories…guess I will have to come up with a new blog name… especially since the name fits you so much better!

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  35. Posted by Sherry on October 29, 2009 at 11:58 pm

    Need to update this one, hun, before littlest one starts gymnastics! :P Hee hee!

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